A Flower on Cactus

    For a long time I am observing to surrounding, different people lives around me having different thinking and approaches. Hurdles and relaxation is part of life but those are in our hands. We want to be relax and satisfy by what we have done.

    Let me clarify that, every one in this world has aims, for achieving those he/she does struggle, make strategies and communicate to the concern parties. It will be interesting to have a look on our daily lives and the targeted aims we have and struggle for it.

   Getting up in the morning and taking shower: for that we have to leave the bed walk towards shower starting it after that we can be able to take it.

   Doing breakfast: boiling eggs, taking butter, bread, making tea or coffee.

   Going to institute, office or shop: leaving home taking bus, bike, cycle or car and count the distance, and same then from work to home again and taking dinner then going to bed, each and every work needs struggle and concern things or people accordingly.

   These were just the simple activities we used to do in our daily lives but here are big one too, like making relationships and achieving the main goal of life. I will touch these two examples for better understanding because these are usually found in our surroundings.

   The idea of making new relationships, I got when I was discussing about this topic to my friend. Its true stories happened in front of my eyes. In our society mostly when a guy and girl like each other and their families are against them. It’s story of a daughter whose parents want; she should marry where they want. Now the aim of daughter is to marry of her choice and her parents want according to their own wish. They claim that their purpose is the happiness of their daughter. For the satisfaction of their daughter they met the boy, the boy tried his best and respected them with the core of heart. The parents came and told their daughter all lie, the boy is dumb and he insulted us, he will destroy your life. Will you marry a guy who insulted your parents?

  The daughters are so innocent and they have just one answer, I will do what you want. The achievement of one aim with the sacrificing of other. Daughter starts the journey of compromise and seems happy in front of everyone, but may be not in center of being. Because compromise is a kind of disposable and short term happiness.

   Expectation of long term and positive result by achieving your aim on behalf of lie is same like a flower on cactus which you can see but if you want to touch it you will be injured.

Having side so every picture has two sides. The second part I want to discuss is “achieving the main goals of life”. In short don’t give up, hope for the best, because you can be a flower on cactus that everyone can see you but can’t pluck you easily.