What is Anger?

Anger is a condition of human mind in which he/she is unable to judge the situation and unbalanced in taking decision. In this condition most of the decision taken are wrong, most of the understanding of circumstances are negative and all of the persons in front of you are bad. Because of these all, such a person becomes frustrated and becomes hyper, which let them to talk in high note, to beat someone, to use abusive language for proving that he/she is right.

Now why a person become angry?
The answer of this question according to me as i have noticed and as i have seen it in myself is; we used to face many kind of situations in our daily life, to which we have to solve. We are having a style of living, a mind of decision and an arrow to follow according to us. Now if there is a problem in a situation and i want to solve it according to me, i want to follow my heart but i do opposite because of the society. A fight begin between my center of being and mind, i want to do something but i am doing something else, which make me frustrated and this condition is called anger.

If i am doing something against myself, and i know i am wrong so i will think of all the people around me are wrong. which will lead me to proof them wrong, to argue with them and sometime to fight with them and all the scenario will be failed to solve.

We think a person who is angry or who used to be angry is powerful and he or she can harm you, but i will say that such a person is weaker a lot because he or she has no power to accept his or her mistakes and solve it according to what he or she wants.

Anger is not fighting against others but anger is fighting with yourself, not accepting your mistakes and doing all the acts against your heart.

If you want to live a peaceful life; follow your arrow. Listen to your heart and do, Believe me if you are satisfy within your being you will be relax and then if you want to become angry you will never be.     

Situation is Neutral

Situation is what, the circumstances and happenings going around us. We used to face thousands of happenings in our lives on daily bases. We used to face every situation and after that when we get relax, we call it success. It means that we face all the happenings for getting success.
This world is consist of two things number one Right and number two Wrong which implies to good and bad, and behind them there are situations, which is neither good nor bad. It is just a situation which we have to solve and life is the name of solving those problems we are facing by the situations.
The title i have chosen, is on the basis of the above paragraphs.
For several days i felt frustrated by facing the problems and i was thinking the bad shadow is spreading on my life day by day, what will happen and what will i do....
then i thought i am thinking and i am telling myself that the situations going on are bad situations, so then what are good situation, and if here are good situation and bad situation so it includes in both good and bad.
Then i started thinking that the happenings in my life are not bad situations these are the activities which i have to solve and these are the stairs which let me to move forward in my life and will reward me experience. If i can thinks that these circumstances i am facing are bad shadows so i can also think about the solving of these problems, and when i started thinking about that i felt relax and new ideas appeared in my mind.
I saw that all the people in this world are going in one direction. If a person got success in right way all the people will start following that way, if a person got success in left way all will start following that way, and most of the people used to follow others in the straight line, and they try to find the solution of their situations in the action of others.
As i composed the above picture for explaining the ways we used to follow for getting success, a body is standing in the middle of happenings, looking straight and hands on right and left, but the straight way to success is just behind him and he is not looking at it.
If i got my aims in according to my plannings, that was according to me. If you got your same aims according to your plannings, that is according to you.
For example, I have 2 guests and i want to serve them with bread. I have two slices of bread, i have taken a decision to give one slice to each.
Same you have 2 guests and want to serve bread but you have one slice of bread, now we both were facing same situations we got 2 guests and i serve 1 slice to each but you have one slice so if you will try to follow me in this case you can not do ever. You have to think according to your situations and solve to achieve your aims. You have to divide the slice in to two.

Following others are not the success proving yourself is the real taste of achieving your aims.