Shoes and Human Life

    Shoes have a reflection of how to spend our life. From shoes, we can learn a lot of lessons.

Shoelace is a part, which we used to tight or loose according to our comfort zone. It tells that in our life we used to face different situations so for solving these we have to be sometimes strict and sometimes loose.
 
 Every morning we polish it. We should think that just like cleaning these shoes we should upgrade ourselves, we should dust our bads and let the good shine.
 
 Shoes are small but strong, they carry all burden of the human body and protect it from harmful materials on the ground. Similarly, we should make ourselves strong, if our life is too hard, we should have the potential to carry each and every situation, and should keep away ourselves from dangers.
 
 We always see shoes in pairs, one shoe is useless. Same we always need a partner because no one can spend life alone. They need someone walk with them always, just like a pair of shoes.
The pairs also indicate similarity, we cannot make a pair of two different kinds of shoes, so we should choose our partner who is similar to us.

  It means we have to remove "I" and bring "WE". because "I" is always alone and "WE" do not need anyone.

 Another similarity between shoes and the human life are Sole and Soul.
Without sole shoe is noting, and without the soul, the human is nothing.
Sole support Shoes to survive and Soul supports Human to survive.

Same as shoes, everything around us has a reflection of life, we just have to observe and think. 

The Last Time I Wept

      The night when I came to know, that I have just fifteen days of life, by my doctor. I asked her, "do you have any guarantee that you will come alive to the hospital tomorrow?". She replied "No", then I said, "If you have no guarantee of your own life how can you judge my life?". She put her hand on my head and smiled.
       My eyes were wet, not because of that I have very less days to live in this world but at that time I was thinking of my family, that they love me too much. But when I thought about my self it was a double grief for me, how much I enjoyed the life? I wept and wept all the night.
       The days was passing out, my treatment was not reporting positive, and the day of my eye closing forever was coming near. I told to my doctor that my family loves me  too much, complete my last wish don't tell any thing to my family please, when I die then you are allowed to tell them but I can't bare it that they came to know about my last breathing.
       It was fifteenth day when early in the morning I opened my eyes. I thought it is the last day of my life should I spend it in grief or I can do something because of which my last words are "Oh God! What a life I lived, I Enjoyed it a lot. Suddenly I got a thought that time, and it was that "How much time we live isn't any mean, how much we live in that time is a meaningful life".
        I sat and pulled out the drip pipe from my hand, changed my dress, put my shoes, and walked out. The doctor saw me and asked, where are you going as you are not in the situation of any break in your treatment. That time I was unaware of that what actually I want to do. I just simply replied to the doctor, "I have to enjoy my life". and I went out.
        I was standing in the gate of the hospital. I closed my eyes and heard the noise. I was amazed, it sounds too musical to my ears and those were the voices which irritates me before. I felt too much happy when I heard the voices, the noises, as I want to hear it all the time.
        I opened my eyes and started a walk, I enjoyed every step i took that time. I felt too happy that what a blessing of God, I can walk as it was normal before. After five minutes, I reached a pace where there were a lot of flowers of different colors. when i saw the flowers and the different colors i thanked to the God again that you have blessed me with eyes by which I can observe different colors. Oh thank you so much God you made me perfect with my eyes. In short every thing I saw that day, I used to see every day, but that day everything was special. I walked, talked, laughed, danced, sang, and did those all things I got a single thought that time. I enjoyed each and every step of my life that day, because I will be unable to see these things, these blessings tomorrow.
         Enjoying these blessings of God. I walked again to my destination. When I reached my ward, I fell down and the world became dark.
         The words of Azaan was touched my ears, I opened my eyes, looked on my right then on my left, thought am I in Heaven or on earth. I got my fellow patients there when i sat and observed. I smiled, looked above and said "What a life it is". I went Prepared myself for Prayers and offered it, it was Fajar. After that i started recovering, improvement in my treatment.
          Though, with a new life I got many things, I thought positive when I opened my eyes I asked my self "am I in heaven" I did not event got a spark of hell that time. I learnt how special the life is. I learnt how to find a lot of happiness in small happenings. and the most important I learnt how to live the life. From that day when I wake up every morning, I decide, I will enjoy every blessing of God.
Thank you God for all of your Blessings.    

Squeezed Papers, Behind Every Idea.

Behind every success there is a struggle, behind every struggle there is an Idea, behind every Idea there are thoughts, and its not necessary that the first thought will give you the perfect Idea to touch the sky.

We are running after success, and its the rule of the world, everyone should do it. But the most important thing to understand is that, the success is not a served dish in plate that anyone will put it in front of us.

The thing which makes a way to success is Struggle. Working hard, making mind creative, and then apply it with struggle will let you to the success.

Now a question rises, on what we have to work hard? On what we have to make our mind creative?  And on what we have to do struggle? That we get success....
Every struggle needs an Idea. If we have an Idea we will take a step of hard work and creativity and will struggle for it till we get success.

Every Idea has a lot of thoughts behind. A perfect Idea comes out by numbers of failed thoughts, and those who got the perfect Idea, called successful.

If we are thinking for something we want to do and we failed, think once more. If we failed again, think once more. If failed again, think more.

Think more and more, till you get any perfect Idea. Because if you select give up the success will reject you. and you will be a failure in the world.

To be a successful man you should have a broad cupboard of thoughts, even its failed. Because Thought is the basic step to Success.

RE-MISTAKE IS THE ACTUAL MISTAKE

Time passes out, and the world becomes more and more developed. This development occurs when the people living in this world starts innovations. And behind every innovation, there are a lot of failures, every failure occurs by some kind of mistake. He can correct his project by correcting that mistake.

Same we used to make decisions for the different situation of our life, mostly for the first time.
Like taking decisions for the business, decisions for selecting any field, the decision for making relationships etc. 

If we failed in any one of the decisions we have taken by doing some kind of mistake, we should not take it in mind so hard that we suppose ourselves a permanent failure, and it became a give up for us and we became useless in our society.

Always remember the first mistake is not a mistake, it's a lesson from which we have to learn. and avoid this kind of mistake again in the same work.


The actual mistake is what, we repeat the same mistake time to time and never try to correct it.

Every mistake can be corrected because the mistake is for correction and correction is for the mistake.

SHARE IS CARE

If I have a seed, I keep it in safe, it will be rusted and wasted.

If I sow the seed, it will be a plant and with the passage of time, it will become a tree. After that, a time will come that tree will have a lot of fruits.

Now again if I keep all the fruits, It will be rusted and will be wasted.
If I start eating all the fruits, eat and eat and eat.... my stomach will be damaged and I will lose my life.

On every side, we are facing losing either the seed, fruits or our life.
Now, what to do.

The solution is so simple, we are living in a society in which a lot of needy people are living too. if we eat the fruits according to our needs and share the rest of fruits to the people who are needy.
Then the seed will make a tree, the tree will give us fruits, and the fruits will save our life and the life of others too.

Now compare the above story to your own life.

The seed is my experience, the tree is my struggle and the fruits are the result or success. if I have experience and I don't use it, it will be wasted.
If I use my experience and do struggle I will get a good result and success. If I keep this good result Safe with my self, again it is useless. But if I share my experience, struggle, and the result or success of my struggle with others it will motivate them, maybe they are facing some problems which are smaller than the problems I faced and I share my experience with them and by that they Get the solution to their problems, and they get a lesson from my struggle.

My Message is:

Share your experiences, share your struggle, share your success and even share your failures,
it will help the humanity in different ways. Because "Share Is Care"

YOU CAN, WHAT YOU CAN'T

Every thing you can think, you can do. but there are many bodies around us who used to say
" You Can't do what you thinking of ".
And we also stop to doing that work, which we didn't even started. The reason behind our give up is nothing, but the word "CAN'T" which the people used to tell us time to time.
But you know what's the real meaning behind the word "CAN'T" 
The "T" at the end of "CAN'T",  stands for "TRY".
So indirectly the people are motivating you, that you can try that work which you can't do.
Because "Can'T" always says "Can Try".

LIFE, FREEDOM, HAPPINESS

                           
Every morning when i wake up, i just think, if this day is the last day of my life, what will i do?
I just get two options.

1. I spend all of my day in sorrow, sad, and crying, that i am going to die this night.

2. I spend this day as my whole life, i do something like which make me joyful, and i live all my life in this one day.

Because how much time we live is not a life,
Life is what, how much we live in that time.

In this world we used to face a lot of people having different thoughts, and every thought has their own opinion. But that opinion is just for everyone of them individually.

If anyone of us faces any problem, we start depending on others, that they will give us the solution, but the solutions of our problems are with us. If we are dependent on others, if we can not take our decisions, if we can not even think for our selves, it means we are the slaves of the society.
We have desires, and we are the slaves of our desires.

There are two types of desires, one desire is of doing something new, innovations in work, and the second desire is the desire of items,
the desire of getting any thing i mean the items, is the dangerous desire, which make you slave again,

we should leave this kind of desires.

Again a question raise that which are the desires which make us slaves and bound.
This is the point where we have to think and judge ourselves.

Here I will share the story of a monkeys.

When the hunters come to catch the monkeys for the circus, they use a trick. They put some beans in a bottle in which the open hand of the monkey can easily move, so one of those monkeys having the desire of eating beans from the bottle. when the monkey put its hand inside and take the beans so it is now unable to take the hand out of the bottle.

Now that monkey has a great desire to eat the beans and also wants to be free.

Here is the thinking movement, this monkey will be free if it opens the hand and leave the desire.

And then it will spend the life freely and happily in the jungle.

So that if we want to spend a happy life, we should have an independent life, and we should avoid those desires of which we think it can make us a slave, we should avoid the desires of items and should love our work, so that we will get happiness and the pleasures we want as well..