Selfish vs Self

    Satisfaction is the need of life, everyone who wants to be happy search satisfaction in every walk of life, if it is study, job, success or other decision of life for the one or for their family.

    There are two kinds of satisfactions, one you get satisfaction from your decisions and other you want to satisfy your self by the decisions you have taken. These are the two things which make a person selfish of self consistent.

    A person who think that his or her all decisions are perfect. Such a person can be a dominant figure of the family and thinks that their decision is an order which other will follow and that will be in their benefit, but behind every decision there is an interest and the person who takes decisions think of his/her own interest, and interest is the matter which leads to satisfaction, that satisfaction makes the one "Selfish". Because during the decisions he/she just think of their interests, that can be any relations, choices or society.
    Sometimes the decisions are under the pressure of society or relatives, and for fulfilling these the decision maker becomes selfish just because of that, the society or relative will point him/her.

    During this process that person just think of himself and the pressure from society as well, and the decision taken for someone can be crush his/her rights. Such a person know that he is wrong, but he will say everything for satisfying himself that he is right and that decision is for the interest of others. 

    Such a person's life is just breathing but not planing for themselves. Life is too difficult under the pressure of society and thinking before every step what other will say, and with these thinking you snatch the rights and the love of your younger or family members, and such a person will become a patient of depression because he/she pretend to be satisfied but not. What people will say doesn't matter, what you want for yourself it matters. Because people lives their own life and you are living your own and so on everyone has an individual life.

    Now on the other side you have taken a decision and you are relax and happy with it, because that is for yourself, or for whom you have taken it, he/she is agreed. This is called balance and the real satisfaction. You haven't thought about other people, you just looked at yourself and the one for whom you are planing and asked his/her opinion and took a stand for his/her rights. When you succeed you will be feel like a king of your own world, you will head the crown of your own consistency.

    You will be happy from the core of your heart and will be satisfied from your life if you improve "Self". Selfishness will make distance between you and your loved one, nobody will be happy from you and nobody will be stand with you, no one will help you even the God too.

    Improve "Self" because Improving of "Self" decreases the distance between man and God.