Thursday, 21 November 2019

We are on the way to ancient era in modern form


The thing which makes us different from animals is communication. Communication is inferred from a Latin word communis and communicare, communis is a noun which means “common” and communicare is a verb which means “making something common”. Communication is the foundation of community. Where there is no communication there will be no community.
    In the olden time people used to carve on the pillar to communicate one another, it was a static way of conveying the messages because the person has to come from a long distance to pillar for receiving his message. The other way of communication used for long distance was smoke, the people used to fire the woods and give the smoke signals while they are in danger or at the time of victory.
    The journey of communication started from the caveman, they used to gather in a cave around the fire to share day to day activities in their own sign languages and after that they started coding of their activities and knowledge by inscribing it on the cave and rocks.
    The problem with these methods of communication was that it was static and localized way of communication and the only efficient type of communication was writing. Let’s have a look on a brief history of writing. Around 35000 years ago, the mean of communication was cave painting. The people of community used to draw their emotions on the cave or rocks, shapes of human faces, animals like fish and bulls, birds and tools were found in Spain.
    For making the communication dynamic the next medium used for sharing thoughts was making shapes on tortoise shell in the era of 1600 B.C.E, Chinese started inscription on the tortoise shell for the first time which is considered to be a first dynamic mean of communication.
3500 B.C.E was the era of cuneiform, it was a system of making shapes look like wedges on a clay tablet for conveying the messages. This type of communication was developed by Sumerians in Mesopotamia, modern-day southern Iraq. Sumerians is known as one of the world’s first civilization with ancient Egypt and Indus valley.
    2150 B.C.E was the birth of literature, the king of Sumerian’s state in Uruk, Gilgamesh the protagonist of the first poem named The Epic of Gilgamesh that was recorded on 12 clay tablets in Akkadian language.
   Between 1900 to 1700 B.C.E, Semitic-speaking peoples adapted Egyptian hieroglyphs into Proto-Sinaitic script, which is known as the world’s first alphabets before 1000 years from the emergence of Latin alphabets. Egyptian hieroglyphs were the different types of characters that represent either words or sounds hieroglyph is a Greek word means Holy writing. Egyptian hieroglyphs dated to 3200 B.C.E and were art on pyramids.
   Chinese in 600 A.D. developed woodblock printing that carved wood into stamps. The 13th century, however, brought about exciting change in the realm of the written word. For the first time, secular books were produced for the sake of spreading knowledge not relating to religion. In the mid of 1400’s Johannes Gutenberg, a German goldsmith and inventor, expedited the process with mechanical movable type and the printing press, which gave rise to mass printing.
    In 1824 Louis Braille a French educator, invented a system of reading a writing used by blind or visually impaired. Originally featuring a series of dot patterns representing the French language.  1969 was the time when digital communication took place in the world by the sending of an incomplete word “lo” to a computer of Standford University over ARPANET (Advance Research Project Agency Network) from UCLA (University of California, Los Angeles) student Charles Kline.  
    ARPANET was the first network to implement the TCP/IP protocol suit. Both technologies became the technical foundation of internet. More digital communication followed: the first mobile phone call in 1973, the invention of the World Wide Web in 1989, and the first text message in 1992.
In 1999, the Japanese cell phone company NTT DOCOMO released the first emojis, which was a set of 176 characters designed by Shiegetka Kurita. Emojis are mimic human faces for all sorts of relatable situations use with the text messages for expressing the feelings or emotions. In total there are 2,666 emojis in Unicode standerd, round about 6 billion emojis are used every day in electronic communication. 74pc of people in US has been recorded who regularly use stickers and emojis in their online conversation.
    In social media, now days it is noticed that people prior emojis on typing text, sometimes the conversation is in emojis form. If we compare the modern era to ancient era, we are using the same things, same signs for communicating but in a modern and technological way. Let’s have a look so we can compare the day to day sharing of activities by the caveman to the social media for example Facebook where we used to share our activities of daily routine. Preserving their knowledge on the rock and caves by painting or making shapes in the ancient era can be compared with blogging of the modern era. The shapes on clay tablet have been converted into emojis on an Ipad.
    The communication started from making shapes on cave, pillars, rocks, and ground to express feelings and emotions or sharing of thoughts has been reached to shapes for the same purpose in the form of emojis.

Sunday, 14 April 2019

A MAN WITH DIRTY CAP


As I entered the school gate, I heard “ give me some time I will submit the fee as soon as possible”, it was a humble voice with a tone of request. I waited for the man behind that voice for 15 minutes, he continuously requested for some more time. After 15 minutes I checked my wallet and found some money which was a donation for needy people and I felt this person needs it. I entered in the account office. A tall man with 6 feet height, with rarely white beard was standing there. I asked him about the problem, he replied “I am a dealer and now a days the items I used to sell is not giving me much profit, my son wants to study in this school, he wants to wear suit and shining shoes, I don’t want to break his dreams, I don’t want that he live a life like me.” I saw a hope and hopelessness together in his wet eyes, I put my hand on his shoulder and said “I have some money and I will submit the fee of your child you do not need to return it”. He answered that, “I have to return it”. I agreed and submitted his fee.
     
    When we were coming out he told me that I used to work in railway station in the morning, bus stop in the afternoon and fruit market in the evening. Note the timings whenever you get time after one week come to the specific area I will return your money, by saying this he went away.
I have decided not to go for taking money back from him, but after three days I was taking tea dipping tea bag in my cup and thought, if this man is doing a business in three different areas then how am it possible that he can’t afford school fee which was not a very big amount. Thinking all this I decided to go to him and get the money back because it was a donation and every time I tried to fix the donation on suitable place.
    
    After one weak it was 8 o’clock in the morning, I remember the man told me in the morning he will be at railway station and it was near to my home. It was a busy day a huge number of people were there at railway station waiting for the train at 9:00 am. Here I remember that I haven’t asked name from that man in the school. I was looking for him in the crowd, asking the shopkeepers and the persons on the duties, “Have you seen the tall man having rarely white beard”. Nobody identified, and I sat on a bench over there. The train came commuters took in and gone.
    
    I stood and ready to go back to home, as I turned right I saw a hand and dirty white cap over the pillar. I checked my wallet and decided to give some money to him. As I went to him I was shock, he was the man to whom I paid in school. The tall man setting with the pillar, having a dirty white cap in his hand and begging. I sat next to him and asked, “You said you are a dealer and the item you used to sell is not profitable?” He replied, “Yes I am a dealer and the item which I used to sell daily is my self-respect”. I was not in my senses then I asked why you told me to return money as you are begging here? He replied, “I don’t want that my son is called a beggar’s son in the institute”. Saying this he took out the money and put into my hand and told before I refuse, “you should take it, I can’t sell my item to you I don’t want to deal with you, and requested not to tell anybody about my business”.

          After this story, I wish to kiss the hands of my father every morning and night.

Wednesday, 16 January 2019

A Flower on Cactus


    For a long time I am observing to surrounding, different people lives around me having different thinking and approaches. Hurdles and relaxation is part of life but those are in our hands. We want to be relax and satisfy by what we have done.
    Let me clarify that, every one in this world has aims, for achieving those he/she does struggle, make strategies and communicate to the concern parties. It will be interesting to have a look on our daily lives and the targeted aims we have and struggle for it.
   Getting up in the morning and taking shower: for that we have to leave the bed walk towards shower starting it after that we can be able to take it.
   Doing breakfast: boiling eggs, taking butter, bread, making tea or coffee.
   Going to institute, office or shop: leaving home taking bus, bike, cycle or car and count the distance, and same then from work to home again and taking dinner then going to bed, each and every work needs struggle and concern things or people accordingly.
   These were just the simple activities we used to do in our daily lives but here are big one too, like making relationships and achieving the main goal of life. I will touch these two examples for better understanding because these are usually found in our surroundings.
   The idea of making new relationships, I got when I was discussing about this topic to my friend. Its true stories happened in front of my eyes. In our society mostly when a guy and girl like each other and their families are against them. It’s story of a daughter whose parents want; she should marry where they want. Now the aim of daughter is to marry of her choice and her parents want according to their own wish. They claim that their purpose is the happiness of their daughter. For the satisfaction of their daughter they met the boy, the boy tried his best and respected them with the core of heart. The parents came and told their daughter all lie, the boy is dumb and he insulted us, he will destroy your life. Will you marry a guy who insulted your parents?
  The daughters are so innocent and they have just one answer, I will do what you want. The achievement of one aim with the sacrificing of other. Daughter starts the journey of compromise and seems happy in front of everyone, but may be not in center of being. Because compromise is a kind of disposable and short term happiness.
   Expectation of long term and positive result by achieving your aim on behalf of lie is same like a flower on cactus which you can see but if you want to touch it you will be injured.
Having side so every picture has two sides. The second part I want to discuss is “achieving the main goals of life”. In short don’t give up, hope for the best, because you can be a flower on cactus that everyone can see you but can’t pluck you easily.

Monday, 31 December 2018

Be the One or None



   Ground is the opportunity, floors are the achievements, and stairs are the steps to follow these achievements. Everyone wants to be on top and here is a race among all the beings living in this world to reach at first floor then second and third and so on. We need a shortcut to reach to the top at once, and a number of people do success in it, but with none experience, and then the system they are heading do not work properly because they have missed the steps and came through descending order to the roof. They haven’t experienced the hurdles to pass through different steps. Let me share an example here, there is a building of 10 floors two persons have to reach on the top, one is following the stairs and the other took lift. The person by lift reached before the one by stairs.
Now the interview begins, the person who reached by lift was relax and the one by stairs was tired. The interviewer asked both about every floor, the person who reached before by lift was unable to give answer because he does not saw anything and the person who was late knew about every floor.
   Reaching at the top before everyone, using shortcuts is not the real success, success without facing hurdles is not possible, because these hurdles make you experienced and by following steps one by one you will be learned.
First step is very important, because it is the base of the top. We cannot build the top floor without making the first which is known as “ONE”. We cannot reach to these floors without stepping on stair number one. One is the base without it billions and trillions are impossible. One (class/level) in the school makes us able to use words and sentences. One in the time makes seconds, minutes, hours, days, weeks, months and finally years. One is invention others are copies. One is real Two and so on digits are derived.
The real successful man on the top rank is that who know about the journey from ONE to n…
Be the ONE because this will be your identity. If ONE is subtracted from one it becomes Zero.
Be the ONE otherwise you are NONE…    

Monday, 17 September 2018

The Real Love


     For a very long time I was thinking about, what is Love?
Is meeting someone and always thinking about him or her is love?
Is attachment to someone is love?
Is caring of someone is love?
We do love or love is already existed?
I was thinking of these all things and finally I decided to do a survey so I wrote a text message and send it to all of my phone contacts. I got the following replies:

1. Love is an unbreakable bond between two individuals.
      
      2. Love is feeling.
      
3. Love is addiction.
   
      4. Where there is love, there would be no demand of expectations.
       
      5. Obsession and powerful feelings, Emotion.
    
      6. Love is all about respect and care.

7. Love is the name of baring everything for getting each other, it’s a pure relation
   
 8. Love is Trust and there is no space of doubt.

     Every one of the above answers, made me doubtful because everyone of them raised another question.
     If love is an unbreakable bond then why people do breakups in the relationship, before that they were in love.
If love is feeling then there are other feelings too which make us happy and sad also so then pain is love and gain is love.
If love is addiction so people who are addicted to drugs, love drugs?
If there is no demand of expectations in love then why people demand to be together and if they don’t so then there is no love?
If emotion is love then we usually get emotional to the street children doing hard work in burning sun, or we get emotional watching a sensational movie or drama, so is this love?
We respect all the elders and the elders care of younger, if we give respect to any elder we meet first time, do we love him or her?
Do getting each other is love, means if not so there is no love? Do with the death of someone, the love ends?
If love is the name of trust so then why most of the relationships break with doubt?
   
      In all of the definitions there is something between two persons, and where there is something there is no love. Love is a constant condition within a human which doesn’t change or converted, if you find yourself converted toward someone else, it means there was no love.
Love is a condition in which someone becomes your center of being, if he or she is with you or not but is within you, within your center of being. Love is the condition that you see yourself in someone else eyes and he or she see him/herself in your eyes and there is nothing in between, even there is no thinking. Love is beyond everything, Love is the name of oneness the connection of souls, love is already existed and we just wait to meet our already connected soul.

    (A mother don’t love her children, the love that is existed already don’t need to do.)

     Love is that relationship which doesn’t need anything, there is no power of demand, wish of gaining, or greed of anything, the concept of I and you will be end there will be just I and the existence of two individuals in one I is called love.
     
     If I got you or not, you are with me, you will be, even you are within me, and there is nothing between us because there can be nothing between me and myself.
And this is real Love….

Thursday, 23 August 2018

Selfish vs Self


    Satisfaction is the need of life, everyone who wants to be happy search satisfaction in every walk of life, if it is study, job, success or other decision of life for the one or for their family.

    There are two kinds of satisfactions, one you get satisfaction from your decisions and other you want to satisfy your self by the decisions you have taken. These are the two things which make a person selfish of self consistent.

    A person who think that his or her all decisions are perfect. Such a person can be a dominant figure of the family and thinks that their decision is an order which other will follow and that will be in their benefit, but behind every decision there is an interest and the person who takes decisions think of his/her own interest, and interest is the matter which leads to satisfaction, that satisfaction makes the one "Selfish". Because during the decisions he/she just think of their interests, that can be any relations, choices or society.
    Sometimes the decisions are under the pressure of society or relatives, and for fulfilling these the decision maker becomes selfish just because of that, the society or relative will point him/her.

    During this process that person just think of himself and the pressure from society as well, and the decision taken for someone can be crush his/her rights. Such a person know that he is wrong, but he will say everything for satisfying himself that he is right and that decision is for the interest of others. 

    Such a person's life is just breathing but not planing for themselves. Life is too difficult under the pressure of society and thinking before every step what other will say, and with these thinking you snatch the rights and the love of your younger or family members, and such a person will become a patient of depression because he/she pretend to be satisfied but not. What people will say doesn't matter, what you want for yourself it matters. Because people lives their own life and you are living your own and so on everyone has an individual life.

    Now on the other side you have taken a decision and you are relax and happy with it, because that is for yourself, or for whom you have taken it, he/she is agreed. This is called balance and the real satisfaction. You haven't thought about other people, you just looked at yourself and the one for whom you are planing and asked his/her opinion and took a stand for his/her rights. When you succeed you will be feel like a king of your own world, you will head the crown of your own consistency.

    You will be happy from the core of your heart and will be satisfied from your life if you improve "Self". Selfishness will make distance between you and your loved one, nobody will be happy from you and nobody will be stand with you, no one will help you even the God too.

    Improve "Self" because Improving of "Self" decreases the distance between man and God.             

Saturday, 7 July 2018

What is Anger?

Anger is a condition of human mind in which he/she is unable to judge the situation and unbalanced in taking decision. In this condition most of the decision taken are wrong, most of the understanding of circumstances are negative and all of the persons in front of you are bad. Because of these all, such a person becomes frustrated and becomes hyper, which let them to talk in high note, to beat someone, to use abusive language for proving that he/she is right.

Now why a person become angry?
The answer of this question according to me as i have noticed and as i have seen it in myself is; we used to face many kind of situations in our daily life, to which we have to solve. We are having a style of living, a mind of decision and an arrow to follow according to us. Now if there is a problem in a situation and i want to solve it according to me, i want to follow my heart but i do opposite because of the society. A fight begin between my center of being and mind, i want to do something but i am doing something else, which make me frustrated and this condition is called anger.

If i am doing something against myself, and i know i am wrong so i will think of all the people around me are wrong. which will lead me to proof them wrong, to argue with them and sometime to fight with them and all the scenario will be failed to solve.

We think a person who is angry or who used to be angry is powerful and he or she can harm you, but i will say that such a person is weaker a lot because he or she has no power to accept his or her mistakes and solve it according to what he or she wants.

Anger is not fighting against others but anger is fighting with yourself, not accepting your mistakes and doing all the acts against your heart.

If you want to live a peaceful life; follow your arrow. Listen to your heart and do, Believe me if you are satisfy within your being you will be relax and then if you want to become angry you will never be.     

We are on the way to ancient era in modern form

The thing which makes us different from animals is communication. Communication is inferred from a Latin word communis and communicare,...